If I Had My Child to Raise Over Again

** a nice poem that i found here **


If I had my child to raise all over again,
I’d finger-paint more, and point the fingers less.
I would do less correcting and more connecting.
I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.

I would care to know less and know to care more.
I’d take more hikes and fly more kites.
I’d stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars.

I’d do more hugging and less tugging.
I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.
I’d teach less about the love of power, And more about the power of love.


By Diane Loomans

~ to my kids, u are my my heart my soul.. semoga menjadi anak soleh/solehah.. amiinnn.. love u mwahhsss................

(sentimentol plak)

pictures taken some time in 2007..
how time flies.. rase kejap sgt HaziQ dh 2 year old, and dah nak dapat adik lagi...
wish i could have spent more time with u kiddos...